In the end it's all about creating our own days, dreams, lives and making the best choices to get us where we want and in an emotional state that is happy, thriving, and helping others. You can get started by looking at who surrounds you? What type of environment surrounds you? What messages do you let marinate in your brain?
If it doesn't have YOUR best interests at heart and doesn't feed your soul in a positive way...
it probably needs to go. Clean out your closet this Spring! You will feel great! Get yourself in a place that allows you to flourish and shine bright! You can do it!